When the mind thinks about unhappy thoughts, this amps up stress. When these pop up, come back to the now and think of happier thoughts.
A way to help with this is to start writing down things that make you smile, give peace and also fond memories of love ones and more. When you notice the thoughts straying pull out your list, feel the paper in your hands, read some and connect with happier thoughts.
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